Graham

About Graham

I'm Niv. I built Graham and I still run it. There is no team behind the curtain — one person, a small UK company, and the parents who use it.

I'm divorced — for over a decade. We divorced well, and even so, running family life across two homes was a constant coordination job. Two calendars, two houses, one family.

I was also a lawyer for eighteen years. Many of my clients were divorced parents, and the messages came at all hours — pain, anger, logistics gone wrong again. Eighteen years of that teaches you where the friction actually lives. It is rarely the big court moments. It is the handover that slipped, the payment that half arrived, the plan that changed and nobody wrote down.

Graham began as a small chatbot I made to help my own clients. It grew into what it is today: something you message when things happen, that keeps a dated record as you go, and that helps with the wording when a message is hard to send.

The plain facts

If you want to see what Graham actually keeps, start with the record page — it includes a sample record made from invented entries, so you can read the format before you decide anything.

See the record page

— Niv