GrahamStop dreading every message.Let Graham handle it.
Graham sits between you and your co-parent. He keeps communication calm, tracks expenses, and coordinates schedules.
Free for 30 days · No card needed
UK GDPR compliant · ICO registered · Your data stays private
How it works
WhatsApp, Telegram, or SMS. Your choice.
All synced. Switch anytime.
Set up your account
Pick your platform. Graham messages you directly.
Invite your co-parent
They get their own link. You never communicate directly.
They can use a different platform. All synced.
Graham handles the rest
Messages stay calm. Expenses tracked. Schedules coordinated.
What Graham handles
The everyday communication that makes co-parenting difficult.
Privacy barrier
Graham sits between you. Vent your frustration to him - he delivers only the facts. Your co-parent never sees the emotional version.
Receipt scanning
Photo a receipt, Graham reads it. School uniforms, medical bills, activities - automatically logged and split. No spreadsheets needed.
Schedule changes
"Can you take them Thursday instead?" Message Graham, he asks your co-parent, handles the back-and-forth, updates the calendar.
Less conflict
No more misread tones or triggered responses. Graham keeps every exchange factual and focused on the kids. Peace of mind included.
The difference Graham makes
Less conflict. Less stress. Better co-parenting.
| Without Graham | With Graham | |
|---|---|---|
| Sending a message | Stress about wording, wait for hostile reply | Graham rephrases it calmly |
| Tracking expenses | Disagreements, forgotten receipts | Clear record both can see |
| Changing plans | Tense negotiation | Neutral coordination |
| Getting a response | Ignored or delayed | Graham follows up |
| Conflict level | High | Reduced |
| Your stress | Constant | Manageable |
Your trust matters to us
We understand you're sharing sensitive information about your family. That's why we take privacy seriously.
Your messages are private
What you tell Graham stays between you and Graham. Your co-parent never sees your original words.
UK GDPR compliant
Your data is protected under UK law. You can export or delete your data at any time.
ICO registered
We are registered with the UK Information Commissioner's Office (Ref: 00012977253).
Read our full Privacy Policy to learn more about how we protect your data.
Choose your plan
Start solo or together. Free trial included. Cancel anytime.
Solo Premium
For you, while co-parent considers
14-day free trial
- Incident Journal
- Message Drafting
- Neutral Invites to co-parent
- Personal custody calendar
- Expense planning
- Voice message support
Upgrade free within 30 days when co-parent joins
Couple
When your co-parent joins
30-day free trial
- Everything in Solo, plus:
- AI-powered mediation
- Shared custody calendar
- Expense splitting & settlements
- Message relay between parents
- Both parents included
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Common questions
Everything you need to know about Graham.
What parents say
"I used to dread every notification. Now I just message Graham and he handles the communication. My anxiety has genuinely reduced."
Sarah M.
London
"The expense tracking has eliminated so many arguments. We both see the same numbers. No more disputes about who paid for what."
James T.
Birmingham
"Schedule changes used to turn into arguments. Now Graham just coordinates it neutrally. It's made things so much calmer."
Emma L.
Manchester
Ready to reduce the conflict?
Graham handles the communication.
You focus on what matters: your children.
Free for 30 days · No card needed
UK GDPR compliant · ICO registered · Cancel anytime